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Many couples come to this session feeling that they are stuck in grief, which can leave them feeling hopeless and helpless.
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Adams describes how couples survive the chaos of addiction, but do not always have the opportunity to experience full emotional recovery. They often become stuck in the negative patterns of interaction that are driven by ineffective attempts to feel understood and to have their emotional needs met by their partners.
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We were very much stuck in conflict and separate corners, wanting to come together, but lost as to how to do. This workshop showed us how to soften toward each other to allow the connection we both wanted to find, a starting place.
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Learning how to interact in more tender, loving, responsive, and emotionally connected ways can promote second order change through the development of a more secure attachment.
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It is not often that I am surprised by anything, but this week blew past my expectations. I am more hopeful for my marriage now than I have ever.